The 3 Types Of Relationships In BDSM Novels

3TypesofBDSMRelationships

And domination can range all the way from an entire lifestyle, twenty-four/seven, to just a fun bout of sex. Many women fantasize about having a man take charge in the bedroom.” … “Here the fantasy is real.”

Master Z, Club Shadowlands (Masters of the Shadowlands #1) by: Cherise Sinclair

To provide some guidance in the BDSM sub-genre, we have compiled information about the the three main types of BDSM relationships. We have listed several examples of novels which contain those kind of couple dynamics.

Bedroom Dom: “These are the relationships in which the power exchange takes place only during a set time frame. It usually coincides with sex or b/d & s/m play. There is no power exchange outside of these scenes.” These are the types of relationships which we enjoy reading about the most.

Examples:

Live-in 24/7 Relationship: In a live in 24/7 relationship, “a d/s relationship is one where the power exchange exists outside the bedroom or pre-arranged scenes. The power exchange encompasses more than just sexual acts.”

Examples:

Master/slave: “This is a rare type of relationship. One that is often misunderstood and ostracised. Nevertheless, it is a valid and very real type of BDSM relationship. In such a relationship there is a total giving of power from the slave to the dominant.” The Dom decides what the sub eats, wears, etc…

Examples:

This information was taken from:
http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/ravenrelationships.htm

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